Being a divorced dad back in the dating scene is the hardest. Once divorced the dating scene, already known for being a bit difficult becomes even more so. If you are a divorced dad looking for love a second time around, then you know all too well the problems that you face, but don't give up.
I think,You and your wife may decide to add to your family with children of your own. While clearly a decision for the adults, it greatly involves your stepchildren. It will alter their lives almost as much as it will change yours. Do not lose sight of that.