Being a divorced dad back in the dating scene is the hardest. Once divorced the dating scene, already known for being a bit difficult becomes even more so. If you are a divorced dad looking for love a second time around, then you know all too well the problems that you face, but don't give up.
I think,You and your wife may decide to add to your family with children of your own. While clearly a decision for the adults, it greatly involves your stepchildren. It will alter their lives almost as much as it will change yours. Do not lose sight of that.
The pain and stress of divorce, the division of a union that was to last until “death do us part,” affects everyone, even the initiating party. Often there is blame on both sides of the fence between partners; oftentimes children blame themselves.